Men can never compromise with women on the issue of the two Ls, Life and Love. For us men, life means career and love means money. For women, life is love and love is everything. Our mindset is just different.
Ambition for a successful career and the desire to build up a business empire are the natural instincts of a man. Before we are twenty-five years old, we may be crazier, more childish, and more irresponsible than the girls. But when we think it’s time to plan our future, we can get very serious indeed. A few years ago I watched an inspiring advertisement for Guinness – “Why not you?” (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jbYngTzfdgw). It told us what a man should do to achieve the climax of his career.
Why are career and money so important to us? I’ll tell you later. Let’s talk about women first.
Women, most women anyway, think they are born to love and to be loved. Some even start planning their dream wedding from the age of three and some (single women) keep dreaming of it when they are in their sixties. The princess never grows.
On the aspect of love, a good man takes it as a responsibility. When he meets the right person, he will see the relationship as a commitment and try to give the best to his lover: best dinner, best presents, and best living standards. Remember, all these bests require huge amount of money. That’s why we fill our mind with dollar signs.
However, sadly, women don’t understand. On one hand, they wish their men to be aggressive and hard working to gain money and power. On the other hand, they want us to devote 24 hours to caring and loving them. So, tell us, women, what should we do?
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