August 31st, 2010
You've seen the Theory. If you didn't, click on Part 1. A teenager reviews the theory.
Here's Stevie discussing coming out out with his mates.
And what happened when he did.
Out, for sure.
Stevie: I'm Really thinking about coming out to everyone, but first to my best friend. I'm scared, :( why do we even have to come out, as if straight people have to come out!)
Nick: I guess I'm lucky - my dad is pretty cool so I didn't have to come out - good luck
Stevie: I dislike being gay. You get put down so much and so many straight guys call you down for it, it hurts. I think to myself I’m bi and stuff but a vagina is nasty. I would never touch it, I wanna be happy with who I am, but there’s so many homophobic people out there.
Andy: I know how you feel. I have thought the same many times, but what you need to do is find some nice real gay friends and learn that its not so bad.
Paul: Andy is 100% right. It's tough, particularly when you're really young. Just be yourself. There will be ups and downs but you'll be fine in the end.
Carlos: Awh mate. Don't think like that people are always scared of the things they dont understand.
Stevie: I like it at the same time, I just have so many mixed feelings, I’m not trying to put any gay guys down, I just feel wrong, but I cant change it.
Brandon: Don't worry buddy. There are other people like you who are going through the same thing. Just be happy with who you are.
Kevin: Well mate there is nothing wrong with being who you are gay str8 or bi remember though, dude, you're only young
Scott: This comment really almost made me cry. I’m glad I saw this though kinda sad how people do that. It’s just really ignorant and stupid.
Thomas. Me too...you are not alone in this situation...But I’im gonna tel the truth. I had sex with a girl and I realized that it didn’t feel right. It wasn’t what I wanted. I didn’t want to be that way. So here I am, gay!
Thinking about it.
Jerry: Don’t worry baby boy. I go thru the same thing. Just do what’s best for you and tell only the people you really care about..ok?
Juan: Be yourself and be happy m8
Mikey: Mate I came out when I was 14. My mam was shocked but you never really know how parents will react. My dad didnt talk for a few days but when he thought about it I was still his son. It is hard. I get abuse as well. People don’t all understand and get scared of what they don’t understand. Be strong fella and everyting will work out.
Out and proud.
Vincent: Life is hard and difficult for us. There are many people that look down on u, but whatever...they don't seem to understand and are afraid of what they don't know. Not everyone appreciates us, but there are others that will. So don't put yourself down....it's not your fault...It's no ones' fault, life takes it's course, you have fun being who you are. Coz no one else matters, only the ones that love you.
Stevie: Thanks everyone, but I mean I do want a family and kids, but everyone would think I let them down if I told them I was gay. I dont understand how straight guys already know I’m gay, and its so depressing when you don’t really have any straight guys as friends because there so afraid of you, it sucks. I feel so guilty. I know I shouldn’t and thanks everyone.
David: Stevie, don’t listen to anyone who is homophobic, they are idiots. There is nothing wrong with being gay, just be who you are. And don’t feel like you are letting your parents down, if they love you they won’t care if you are gay/straight/ or bi and if they are upset with you, you are better off without them.
Letting it all hang out.
Junichi: My family is not so understanding...they would hate me forever and probably kick me out...and my brothers bring so many hot guys around and I cant even do anyting...it really sucks..
Stevie: Omg. I would hate that, I would get them really drunk and fuck them hahaha, that is hot!!
Junichi: Hahaha...I should try that....
Chris: If you let the cruel intolerant people kick you down, they win. They WANT you to be unhappy. Don't give them the satisfaction. The best comeback is to ignore them. That will crush them like the cockroaches they are.
Devan: You shouldnt feel like your disappointing them, why would you be, you just being you. And if they are open to it there still gonna care about you. And for those homophobes, there are many more LGBT people to back your ass up
Dale: Stevie, I dont think you are letting any one down. Those that love you will want you to be happy and not live a lie and in sadness a lot of straight guys will just call you gay cos of your good and hansom looks without really knowing you really are gay
Mikey: The only person you need to focus on not letting down is yourself! Keep your head up. God made you this way for a reason! You are a beautiful n sweet person!
More out than in.
And now........what happened when Steve came out to Barbra.
Stevie: Omg, I'm still shaking. Just came out to Barbra, my best mate. Now I cant breath, she accepted it, but omg im still shakeing.
Freddie: What did she say?
Alexis: Yea, it is a little nerve wrecking isn't it ahah
Stevie: Haha it is, omg, and she's fine with it!!
Jochen: You took a big step. Glad your friend is fine with it. The shaking will stop soon but I'm glad you can be somewhat open. (:
Graham: Great!!!!! :D
Out on camera.
Stevie: Hey, did you shake when you came out, and @ Graham have you come out?
Alexis: Yea I was shaking haha. But i found out who my true friends were. And it brought me and my friends closer together.
Graham: I was a little more nervous coming out to my friends than I was with my parents and family, and they were all accepting of it, so yes I have came out
Stevie: I cant breatth, omgggg,
Graham: Awe its okay (: you'll be just fine.
Jason: I have only come out to my mom and therapist. My dad knows cuz my mom told him. None of my friends know. Just take a deep breath dude. You're gonna be ok.
Alexis. I haven't told my family yet. But yeah I am more nervous about that than anything else.
Luke: Aw just listen to everyone n it will get easier on out n it will be okay but the telling parents thing will be the hardest. I haven't figured out a way yet lol
Waiting for the sun to come out.
Pedro: Good job on coming out...it might shake you now but it becomes like breathing the more U say it!!
Adam: Trust me it gets easier, my parents n friends know. I was the same way, shaken n nervous, but look it this way: Ur a step closer to being you. One less person u have to hold it back from, now you have someone close you can confine in.
Jochen: Hahahaha...Adam that is some funny shit right there!!! I was waiting for hellfire and brimstone and my mom had the nerve to say "Well is that it?" She was glad I'm gay and not a dad!!
Out and about
Join our mailing list
- November 30th, 2016
- October 31st, 2016
- October 1st, 2016
- August 22nd, 2016
- August 1st, 2016
- June 30th, 2016